Imagine being the oldest of twelve children and fifty plus cousins. You aren't sure if it is due to experience or your innate nature, but you are quite good at bossing all these "youngsters". You get huge things done with numbers at your disposal. You create economies and you are the bankster, your siblings and cousins your working class (or the counterfeiters). Everyone honors you and burdens you with trust. But you are also the first one in trouble if something does go wrong. Now imagine being told, "They are all looking up to you. Whatever you do they will do ten times worse." You wish to wear a skirt that might show your knees if you sit down. "Yes, it's not that immodest," you are told. "But... if I allow you to wear that your little sister will want to wear a mini skirt when she is your age." If you do this , they will want to that . Be an example, you are told. It's even Biblical. You can't argue with it. And yet... an...