A lot of girls see babies and are like, "Oh!!!! Baby!! Have to hold, have to kiss, have to squish!" It's as if they can't control themselves from going crazy over any baby - because it's just too cute.
I've never been like this.
Babies are just babies to me.
And I've never felt the urge that I just had to have a baby.
Baby-crazy girl: "Don't you just want a kid?"
Me: "No... I think I'd prefer to get married, first."
For a while I thought I may have been weird as most girls love little kids. But my sisters are just like me in this.
Then I thought the reason may have been partly because I have ten younger siblings and I'm just accustomed to babies and kids. I see and hold and kiss babies all the time. So, maybe another baby wasn't new to me. - Even though I was always excited for another baby sibling.
But then I saw other girls, part of large families also, that were obsessed with strange babies. And I was confused again.
It's not that I hate babies.
But I don't love every single one either.
In fact I think most look like ugly rats.
But I love certain kids.
|This little sister of mine is my buddy ;b|
I like my siblings.
I like my cousins.
|3 active, fun little boys ;)|
I like the kids I babysit.
|Mary's baby, Annalise. I get to see pictures of her almost every day!!! I get to got stay with them for three weeks this January. :)|
|Rashida's chunky baby, Ezzie. Just look at her smile! :D|
I like the kids of my friends.
And there are a few other kids from families I know that I love.
But most kids are brats (demons). And their size or looks don't affect much in my mind.
You see, I like people for who they are. Regardless of age or size or looks.
I don't have to cuddle every baby I see.
I don't want to be friends with every pretty girl.
I don't have to kiss every cute guy.
In fact, I definitely don't want to kiss every good looking guy.
That's just weird.
I like babies for what they mean to me. through the connection of their parents, or their nice attitude.
Beyond that? I don't consider myself a baby lover.
Yes, I'm a people lover.
But I don't need to hug and kiss everybody, babies included.